Sandra asks…
What are some good birthday surprise ideas?
Ok, background:
I have 3 best friends, and ever since we moved to our school in August, it's always been us 4. So whenever one of us has a birthday, the other three of us do something awesome for the birthday girl. 2 of their birthdays are actually really close together, and they're also close to the end of the semester. So about a week before their birthdays, (so they would have time to enjoy it before taking it down when we moved out for the holidays) the other 2 of us covered their dorm rooms in streamers and banners and their favorite candy and huge bows. You couldn't walk in the room, it looked like a huge birthday gift. Then for my birthday, my roommate (the other 2 are roommates also) took me to go see Hairspray the night before, and then we came back to cram for a physics test that we had at 8 AM the next day and at midnight on the dot, the other 2 ran in all dressed up in gangster outfits with huge signs on them and rapped happy birthday to me and it was super cute.
So now, the only one of us who hasn't had their birthday yet...has a birthday this week, and the other three of us can't think of a thing to do for her! I mean, we'll probably go write on her car in the middle of the night and stuff like that, but we're not in the dorms anymore so it'd be really hard to do something to her room or whatever. So if anyone has any ideas, that would be wonderful!! Thanks!
admin answers:
What about decorating her car ??? Balloons inside, and wrap the car up like a present ?? A singing telegram?? Even if they still have those.
Sounds like you guys have fun and are a great group of friends ;))))
Donna asks…
Guys, girls, please help me?
Answerers, I have a serious problem. I want to apologize for making this question too long, and for being an absolute freak of nature. I'm sorry to all of you. I truly am.
I'll try to be as clear as I can. I've just started college. I'm roomed up and everything and I'm going to start class in the morning. I haven't had much luck getting a girlfriend, and I'm told that college will be a great place for it. The whole summer, I've been banking on getting a girlfriend in college. But, also over the summer, I've been getting a lot of doubts about whether I deserve a girlfriend. I suppose I'd better show you the heads and the tails of the coin I'd like you to flip for me.
I know that "all my life" is usually used as a euphemism, but literally all my life, the one thing I've wanted most of all, enough that I'd be willing to forsake everything else for, is a girlfriend. I want a cute, kind, funny and intelligent girl that I can relate to, who isn't afraid to be herself around me, and I don't have to be afraid of being myself around her. My idea of a nice date is to go out with the girl I'm dating, show her a good time on the town. Maybe a movie, and dinner. I like the girls that I date to feel like I'm treating them fairly, the way they deserve to be treated. I want romance and a loving relationship. But I can't do that when I'm afraid to leave my dormroom for anything other than class.
But, the flipside, and problem with this is:
I have been having some fantasies about girls... Sexual, mainly. Sex is constantly on my mind, and I wish it wasn't. Everywhere I turn, "Latin roots homework. Sex. Sex. Se- Where's my- Sex. Sex. I need to make sure that I have my iPod- Sex. This is delicious. Sex. Sex. Sex. Oh my! There's a pretty girl! Sex x 6." This may not seem like it's a big deal, but I've also been having really kinky fantasies of girls all tied up, at my mercy, not being able to stop me from having my way with them. The thing with this, though, is that it's not something I want. I mean, I want it, but I also don't really want it. My body is what wants sex, not me. I want to have sex so badly that I find myself having to have private time and get myself off in the most inconvenient times of the day. But that's not even the half of it. Lately, I've had the feeling that normal sex won't be enough for me. That I won't be turned on enough by just my girlfriend alone, and that I'll have to strap her to something in order to do anything. I also read this erotic story of a boy and his girlfriend who get caught up in a horrifying sex scenario, and it did not have a happy ending. It turned me on a great deal, but I've realized that none of the things I fantasize about are morally right. All of the things that I think about, make me feel that I don't deserve a girlfriend, let alone sex. Because of this, I've gotten really depressed. I got so depressed today that I couldn't even find it in myself to get off the floor of my dorm room. I'm actually breaking as I type this. This is all really kinky stuff that I think about, but if anyone tried to do that to me, or to a girl that I love, I would just... die. Lately, I've been wishing that I would die, so that I don't have to worry about whether I'm going to hurt someone or not. I can't take having sex on my mind all the time, and wanting badly to have my way with the nearest thing without a Y chromosome.
I don't want to be some sex-starved monster. I want my urges to die down, because it's not doing any good right now to have urges and no outlet.
I want to say one more time that I'm truly sorry for what a freak of nature I've become, and that I want to be a good person, a good friend, a good boyfriend, and anything else I hold a title to. Could somebody please help me? Offer me some advice?
I actually have had a girlfriend before, I've just not had a date in two years.
admin answers:
Different people get turned on by different things, whatever floats your boat man, there are many more screwed up people out there than you, and theres a lot of chicks who would find what your talking about really kinky, and I've known a lot of chicks who like kinky things... Trust me though once you start getting laid on a regular basis, things will probably change for ya, once you know you can have something that extra excitement kinda dies down, its the want what you cant have scenario. But you know I find the best way to find someone is to stop looking, just jerk off, gets rid of the sexual tension, and I know how great it is to have that other person in the mix, but with it comes a whole other set of issues. What I've found is get into your schooling, join a group that gets you some personal time with a few girls that you can relate to, and just go with the flow, try to get to know a few new people and just do the normal procedure, ask out, woo, date, sleep together, etc. I find it's usually harder to spot a person who you might be interested in or they might be interested in you if your actually focusing on finding someone. I was looking for a new girlfriend right away after my ex left me after 3 years, and I went on a few dates, but they all SUCKED, I was settling, for anyone who I found somewhat attractive or that I could get close to. Big mistake which I realised, after I found out one of my dates was sleeping with her cousin, both figuratively and literally on a daily basis... After that one I just decided to stop looking and just let things happen. I just got really into my work for a good two months and focused on nothing else. Then all of a sudden two months later, i started flirting with this girl at work, not on purpose actually she started flirting with me first. We just got really talkative, and eventually I gave her my number, and we started dating. Same thing will happen with you man, unless your just looking for some T&A just let things happen, when you click with someone you'll know as long as your just taking things as they come. College isn't always just a f*ck fest, actually I've yet to meet someone in college after 4 years, always outside of school... But it does give you an opportunity to meet more girls, get close to them and see who you hit it off with ;)
George asks…
Please help me? Guys, girls, please leave serious answers?
Answerers, I have a serious problem. I want to apologize for making this question too long, and for being an absolute freak of nature. I'm sorry to all of you. I truly am.
I'll try to be as clear as I can. I've just started college. I'm roomed up and everything and I'm going to start class in the morning. I haven't had much luck getting a girlfriend, and I'm told that college will be a great place for it. The whole summer, I've been banking on getting a girlfriend in college. But, also over the summer, I've been getting a lot of doubts about whether I deserve a girlfriend. I suppose I'd better show you the heads and the tails of the coin I'd like you to flip for me.
I know that "all my life" is usually used as a euphemism, but literally all my life, the one thing I've wanted most of all, enough that I'd be willing to forsake everything else for, is a girlfriend. I want a cute, kind, funny and intelligent girl that I can relate to, who isn't afraid to be herself around me, and I don't have to be afraid of being myself around her. My idea of a nice date is to go out with the girl I'm dating, show her a good time on the town. Maybe a movie, and dinner. I like the girls that I date to feel like I'm treating them fairly, the way they deserve to be treated. I want romance and a loving relationship. But I can't do that when I'm afraid to leave my dormroom for anything other than class.
But, the flipside, and problem with this is:
I have been having some fantasies about girls... Sexual, mainly. Sex is constantly on my mind, and I wish it wasn't. Everywhere I turn, "Latin roots homework. Sex. Sex. Se- Where's my- Sex. Sex. I need to make sure that I have my iPod- Sex. This is delicious. Sex. Sex. Sex. Oh my! There's a pretty girl! Sex x 6." This may not seem like it's a big deal, but I've also been having really kinky fantasies of girls all tied up, at my mercy, not being able to stop me from having my way with them. The thing with this, though, is that it's not something I want. I mean, I want it, but I also don't really want it. My body is what wants sex, not me. I want to have sex so badly that I find myself having to have private time and get myself off in the most inconvenient times of the day. But that's not even the half of it. Lately, I've had the feeling that normal sex won't be enough for me. That I won't be turned on enough by just my girlfriend alone, and that I'll have to strap her to something in order to do anything. I also read this erotic story of a boy and his girlfriend who get caught up in a horrifying sex scenario, and it did not have a happy ending. It turned me on a great deal, but I've realized that none of the things I fantasize about are morally right. All of the things that I think about, make me feel that I don't deserve a girlfriend, let alone sex. Because of this, I've gotten really depressed. I got so depressed today that I couldn't even find it in myself to get off the floor of my dorm room. I'm actually breaking as I type this. This is all really kinky stuff that I think about, but if anyone tried to do that to me, or to a girl that I love, I would just... die. Lately, I've been wishing that I would die, so that I don't have to worry about whether I'm going to hurt someone or not. I can't take having sex on my mind all the time, and wanting badly to have my way with the nearest thing without a Y chromosome.
I don't want to be some sex-starved monster. I want my urges to die down, because it's not doing any good right now to have urges and no outlet.
I want to say one more time that I'm truly sorry for what a freak of nature I've become, and that I want to be a good person, a good friend, a good boyfriend, and anything else I hold a title to. Could somebody please help me? Offer me some advice?
admin answers:
Lots of people have kinky fantasies like this, even me. Its normal! So you're not a freak of nature :) and the sheer fact that you're apologizing shows you're not some sex craving monster. You know what's right and wrong. I'm positive that if you found a girl you love, you would definitely be able to be aroused by her, whether she's tied up or not. All of this will come some day, and I think the stress of finding a girlfriend has gotten to your head. Just try to lighten up. You aren't a monster, and there's a girl out there for you somewhere, you just have to put yourself out there and find her. Don't be scared - maybe you'll be rejected ten times, but the one time you're not and you find that special girl, it will all be worth it. Good luck finding her :)
Chris asks…
I really messed up with this girl but can I still fix it? My friend brought these 2 girls to my dorm 1night..
and we were just hanging out.1 of the girls was checking me out and dropping me hints all night long that she liked me.The next day I find out through my friend that her friend said she thought i was really cute.So I add her on facebook and invite her to my party but she told me she couldnt make it.Then a few days later i ask her if she wanted to meet up at a bball game and gave her my #.She said that would be cool but then she never showed up.She then sent me a message on fb saying that the game sold out b4 she could get a tic.I believe that because our arena is really small and it was standing room only that night.I dont mess her for a week and then I got drunk last night and asked her for her # on fb but she never responded.Then today my buddy said that she invited me and him to her superbowl party.I couldnt make it cause i was hosting my own.I know the whole asking for her # on fb was a bad idea but I like her and I want to chill with her.Im sure i came on to strong,what shouldIdo?
admin answers:
Yo you both got the hots, but if she is hosting parties she may have others playing the sidelines too. You gotta step up and stop warming the bench and get in the game playa
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