Girls Room Painting Games

Richard asks…

everyone! need help guys and girls! PLZ read! :)?

Backround of us:
Me: im a sophomore, and i play baseball. i have lots of friends (girls and guys).
Her: she is a senior, plays softball. lots of friends (guys and girls).

We met durring a practice and a mutual friend brought us together (that same friend told me she kinda liked me but not sure). within the first week we talked and got to know each other, but i suddenly stopped. so i thought oh well she must have lost interest. then the next week she came to a game of mine and then left without saying bye, but she txted me sayin i did good and she liked the hit i "got for her". and it took off. we would txt every night until 3am. but what i have noticed is that she doesnt respond fast. like she'll be in her room doing nothing, and she would respond 30min later. by then im sleeping. but some nights she just responds quickly.
We hung out one day, she wanted me to paint easter eggs with her, and i did. we kinda had some fun but i could only stay for an hr. but we skyped when i got home. i see her in school and we chat a couple times but not much. usually she wants to chat with her friends, so ill let her be and stuff. but sometimes when we see eachother we chat till we are at her class.
Before our games we want to hang out b4 we have to get dressed but never have yet. She wants to really bad but we keep having to reschedule. Im friends with pretty much the whole softball team and alot of them come up to me and ask me if i liked her / do we have a thing and all sorts of stuff, and they dont see us much so this gives me the thought she talks about me.
She has said she wants to kiss me and stuff (it'll be my first) just so i can have it. im fine with that. NO she isnt a whore or a slut. she is nice and outgoing. she wants me to visit her while she is working but i cant cuz im usually too buzy or my mom wont let me :/ but she totally understands it.

I want to ask her out, but not right now b.c we have only hung out twice and i feel like we need to hang out a couple more times before i do. But is she playing hard to get? i may seem like a dumbass but im just really inexperienced. Thanks for your help!

admin answers:

It seems to me like she likes you, dude. Good job getting the older women too haha.

Actually, it seems like you're in position to ask her out whenever you feel ready to. She texts you a lot, you talk a lot in person, and she has definitely is interested in you.

Look at it like this: A kid on the mound just threw a fat fastball right down the middle. You've got the ability to crush it. "Do you want to?" is the only question you have to answer. You've got this one in the bag, buddy. Good luck.

Hope this helps,

Underdog

Michael asks…

Fun things to do over summer??? Girls!?

i made a list of things to do w/ and w/out friends. I want to get to 101, but I only have 57 and they're:
1. Beach
2. sleepover
3. pool party
4. movie night
5. Six flags
6. raging waters
7. customize TOMS shoes
8. make a splatter painting
9. go shopping
10. lemonade stand
11: MIDNIGHT SHOWING OF HARRY POTTER 7 PART 2
12. get new hair
13. make a music video
14. edit vacation video
15. write a movie, act it out, and put it on youtube
16. prank call
17. have an elementary school reunion
18. go to minnesota (i live in southern CA)
19. bake sale
20. car wash
21. ouija board
22. sell stuff on ebay
23. go to thrift stores on a budget
24. bowling
25. zoo
26. sky high (bouncing, trampoline place)
27. camping
28. roadtrip (maybe with friends)
29. santa monica pier
30. photo shoots (for fun)
31. botanical gardens
32. random old board games
33. mini-golf
34. CHUCKY CHEESE! lol
35. concerts
36. picnic at park
37. make homemade pizza
38. take walks
39. scrap books
40. write a small novel
41. make bracelets
42. stay up 24 hours
43. make new clothes out of old
44. water gun/ balloon fight
45. 333 ways to get kicked out of walmart
46. make up a secret language
47. throw a surprise party for an old friend
48. write letters to friends
49. pie eating contest
50. go to the park and watch sports
51. make a mixed cd describing my life
52. run through sprinklers
53. self-portrait
54. plan a dream vacation
55. redo room
56. back-to-school shopping
57. get a dog!

sorry for spelling mistakes.. its last at night!
so, if you have any suggestions, leave them here!!! oh, and i'm 12, but my friends are 11-13 so yeah :) THANKS!
lol neither have i..... i don't think bees like me :P

admin answers:

- Wax the ceiling
- Rearrange political campaign signs
- Sharpen your teeth
- Play Houdini with one of your siblings
- Braid your dog's hair
- Clean and polish your belly button
- Water your dog...see if he grows
- Wash a tree
- Knight yourself
- Name your child Edsel
- Scare Stephen King
- Give your cat a mohawk
- Purr
- Mow your carpet
- Play Pat Boone records backwards
- Vacuum your lawn
- Sleep on a bed of nails
- DON'T toss and turn
- Boil ice cream
- Run around in squares
- Think of quadruple entendres
- Speak in acronyms
- Have your pillow X-rayed
- Drink straight shots...of water
- Calmly have a nervous breakdown
- Give your goldfish a perm
- Fly a brick
- Play tag...on West 35th Street
- Exorcise a ghost
- Exercise a ghost
- Be blue
- Be red
- But don't be orange
- Plant a shoe
- Sweat
- Give a Rorschach test to your gerbil
- Turn
- Write a letter to Plato
- Mail it
- Take your sofa for a walk
- Start
- Stop
- Dial 911 and breathe heavily
- Go to a funeral...tell jokes
- Play the piano...with mittens on
- Scheme
- Sit
- Stay
- Water your family room
- Cause a power failure
- Roll over
- Play dead
- Find a witch
- Burn her
- Donate your brother's body to science
- Ask why
- Wriggle
- Regress
- Sleepwalk without sleeping
- Try to join Hell's Angels by mail
- Wonder
- Be a square root
- Ask stupid questions
- Weld your car doors shut
- Spew
- Vacation at Three-Mile Island
- Surf Ohio
- Teach your pet rock to play dead
- Go bowling for small game
- Be a monk...for a day
- Wear a sweatband to your wedding
- Staple
- Run away
- Intimidate a piece of chalk
- Abuse the plumbing
- Bend a florescent light
- Bend a brick
- Annoy total strangers
- Let the best man win
- Believe in Santa Claus
- Throw marshmallows against the wall
- Hold an ice cube as long as possible
- Adopt strange mannerisms
- Blow up a balloon until it pops
- Sing soft and sweet and clear
- Sing loud and sour and gravely
- Open everything
- Balance a pencil on your nose
- Pour milk in your shoes
- Write graffiti under the rug
- Embarrass yourself
- Grind your teeth
- Chew ice
- Count your belly button
- Sit in a row
- Stack crumbs
- Gesture
- Save your toenail clippings
- Make a pass at your blender
- Punt
- Make up words that start with X
- Make oatmeal in the bathtub
- Search for the Lost Chord
- Chew on a sofa cushion
- Sing a duet
- Balance a pillow on your head
- Hold your breath
- Faint
- Stretch
- Flash your mailman
- Teach your TA English
- Learn to speak Farsi
- Swear in Russian
- Use an eraser until it goes away
- Disassemble your car
- Put it together inside out
- Record your walls
- Interview your feet
- Make a list of your favorite fungi
- Sell formaldehyde
- Repeat
- Ad lib
- Fade
- File your teeth- Whine
- Rake your carpet
- Re-elect Richard Nixon
- Critique "Three's Company"
- Listen to a painting
- Play with matches
- Buff your cat
- Race ferrets
- Paint your house...Day-Glow Orange
- Have a formal dinner at White Castle
- Read Homer in the original Greek
- Learn Greek
- Change your mind
- Change it back
- Watch the sun...see if it moves
- Build a pyramid
- Stand on your head
- Stand on someone else's head
- Spit shine your Nikes
- See how long you can stay awake
- See how long you can sleep
- Paint your teeth
- Wear a salad
- Speak with a forked tongue
- Paint stripes on a lake
- Ski Kansas
- Sleep in freefall
- Kill a Joule
- Test thin ice...with a pogo stick
- Apply for a unicorn hunting license
- Do a good job
- Crawl
- Invite the Mansons over for dinner
- Paint your windows
- Watch a watch until it stops
- Flash your goldfish
- Paint
- Flirt with an evergreen
- Smile
- Rotate your garden...daily
- Paint a smile
- Shoot a fire hydrant
- Apologize to it
- Pretend you're blind
- Annoy yourself
- Get mad at yourself
- Stop speaking to yourself
- Be a side effect
- Ride a bicycle...up Mt. McKinley
- Duck
- Redecorate...your garage
- Develop a complex
- Join the Army...be someone simple
- Try harder
- Hit the deck
- Put leg-warmers on your furniture
- Cut the deck
- Crumple
- Translate Shakespeare into English
- Skydive to church
- Cheer up a potato
- Do aerobic exercises...in your head
- Play cards with your swimming pool
- Pinstripe your driveway
- Play Kick the Fire Hydrant
- Harness chipmunk power
- Build a house with ice cubes
- Call London for a cab
- Mug a stop sign
- Change your name...daily
- Go for a walk in your attic
- Challenge your neighbor to a duel
- Build a house out of toothpicks
- Howl
- Wear a lampshade on your head
- Memorize the dictionary
- Stomp grapes in the bathtub
- Find a bug and chase it
- Make yourself a pair of wings
- Be immobile
- Dance 'til you drop
- Check under chairs for chewing gum
- Squish a loaf

Paul asks…

Now a question for all (especially the feminists).. Should men and women have different toilets?

I do not believe we need to distinguish between man and woman or any race or religion for that matter.It gets ingrained since childhood that a boy cant understand a girl and vice-versa. Boys and girls are made to play in different groups and different games (any boy taking upa so called 'girly game' is frowned upon.) When they grow up they are encouraged to take different interests sports for boys, fashion for girls... and list goes on and on. What happens at the end of the day is... Men always end up thinking 'Why cant a women be more like men?' (Same is true for women as well.) So if we dont distinguish dont paint a boy's rooms blue and a girl's room pink and encourage o intermingle and play I think the world would be a far better place to live in. I know many of you say what about when they reach puberty.Wont it be more hazardous..Well it parents can talk to children freely and openly about sex and responsibilities sucha situation would never arise I believe most people living on this earth are good and can think properly.Others would but they would anyway get into trouble even without it.
By the way I am a man.. but I like to think differently.

admin answers:

I feel like a kindergarton teacher here sometimes.....

Who ever said women wanted to be like men??? I certainly don't!

And yes, we should have seperate toilets. We have different anatomy, we are different, and we would like and are entitled to our privacy.

When men get periods and need to sit down to pee we can share ok!?!

Maria asks…

What's wrong with this?!?

I'm 23 years old, and married a 35 year old woman with a young daughter. I chose an older lady because girls my age just don't know what they want, and are more interested in cheating, head games, guy-hopping, and drama.

Anyway, the problem my wife and I have she wants us to have the same room, however, I prefer staying in the guess room. There, I can decorate it with my music posters, close the door and play the music that my wife hates, practice my electric guitar, stay up till whenever doing whatever...my personal space, my own personality. The master bedroom SHE sleeps in is painted and decorated in an effeminate and very conservative manner...it just doesn't feel like me.

I mean, we do things together all the time--it's just that at home, we have separate rooms. But for some reason, my wife continuously complains about this, saying a man and woman is supposed to have one room and sleep together, and that the guest room is only for when she finds lipstick on my collar and unexplained numbers in my pants pocket.

It's now at the point where when I went to visit my parents for a week and came back home, I found the walls to my room painted pink with Barbie wallpaper along the top of the wall. Even my bedsheets were replaced with Hannah Montana sheets. My wife was sitting there with this stupid grin on her face, saying, "Now both rooms look the same! So why not move your things over next door?"

I'm seriously irritated now...what is so wrong with separate bedrooms when you're married? It's not like we are on no speaking terms--I just want to have my own little space!
Chelsea: My dad would stay up all the time watching football games, so stuff it!
erchnic: You need to learn how to read. a) I said I ***VISTITED*** my parents for a week, not moved in with them. And b) she used the decoration to annoy me out of wanting to stay in the room, not because she's a fan of it herself. You're one of the crowd who suffers from BFTL: "Blab first, think later."

admin answers:

I agree that separate bedrooms can for some reasons. My husband and I both snore and keep each other awake at night. This isn't good for either of us, so while we spend a lot of time together, sleeping in the same bed just isn't possible.

In your situation, I believe your wife may be insecure. Since you are younger than her, she may feel that she cannot compete with the crowd your age. Have you discussed this with her? She may be too afraid to admit the insecurity.

Having your own space is sometimes needed in a marriage, being together all the time, in my opinion, isn't ideal. As humans, we are all unique and don't agree on everything. Retreating to your own space for a while helps you think things out. It seems to me that having this time alone makes for a stronger union because you can think and come to a compromise on differences.

Sit down and have a long talk with your wife. Make sure you re-assure her that she is the one you love and want to be with.

Good luck!

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