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Friday, May 4, 2012

Girl Room Painting Games

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Betty asks…

what colour should i paint the walls of my room?

im a girl in my pre-teens
my room is a frog over the garage
one window only
and one fan that is dark green on the ceiling
oy! i just remembered im on a budget and i cant change the fans colour
im not gothic or anything i kinda like video games too

admin answers:

Pink.....

Mary asks…

Would you date this girl?

Okay would you date a girl who weighs 155ounds who is 5'8 B cup,Plays video games,paint ball whore,Brown belt in tae kwon doe,Has her room decerated with batman,write poetry and music,plays guitar,clingy,funny,vegan,and doesnt wear alota make up just eye liner.
Also hates twilight but loves harry potter and super mario brothers
basicly a nerd who is amazing
Would you?

admin answers:

Sounds like you do so what the hell does it matter if anyone else does?

Joseph asks…

Girl needs other perspectives to how to handle a break up?

Girl and Boy dating for 3 weeks shy of 3 years. They do not live together. She stays over at his house 4-5 nights on alternating weeks - the other week he has his son at the house and she does not sleep over, but does come for dinner or to hang out 3-5 nights. Girl has a small apt with no tv that Boy never comes to because he has a house and a very large HD tv - so they hang out at his house. Girl has a drawer in bathroom & clothes at his place because she is there so often. She also has purchased food to eat there so that she is not eating all his food and she shares in the cooking for them both. She records programs on his DVR, as she does not have her own tv, he offered to let her do that. She also does laundry over there every other week. Girl helps Boy with house stuff like dishes, painting, insulating, taking care of son. Girl and Boy rarely fight.
Girl has been sick for 2 months - Boy knows this and normally asks how she is. Thursday she goes to Dr - he tells her she needs an ultrasound on Friday. Girl tells Boy this when she is over waiting for someone to get back down the street - killing time watch tv in the bedroom. Friday, a night when son was over, Girl stopped by because she has just gotten bad news from her Dr - ovarian cyst had grown too much in last month - might have cancer. Boy does not ask about Dr apt, although she does tell him that she does not feel up to her planned Friday night activities. She posts that she has gotten bad news on her Facebook page. When he reads this he asks "what bad news" to which she tells him that the cyst has grown. Boy's son is sitting there so she does not discuss it further. When son goes to bed, instead of talking to Girl about news, Boy plays video games with friend. Girl leaves to go back to her apt - but texts Boy that she is very upset that he didn't talk to her about the Dr. Boy texts back that he didn't want to pry (although he has always asked before) and then says he is going to bed. Boy does not call Girl to see what she is so upset about.
Saturday, Girl does her own activity, but comes back for dinner because Son is cooking special meal and wanted her to be there. Boy does not talk to Girl at apt tonight either. Sunday, Girl stops by after exercising, Boy not only does not ask Girl about anything connected to Dr apt, he keeps asking her when she is going to leave. She leaves and texts that she was sorry to intrude and will not do that again. Boy texts back a bunch of stuff about a missing garage door open and how she is always there (Girl was not there Monday-Wednesday at all). Girl says she does not have the garage door opener, she was sorry for coming over but she is worried about the possibility of having cancer and again that she will not intrude any more. Boy does not respond.
Boy and girl do not talk rest of Sunday or all day Monday. Tuesday Boy texts Girl to "Come over tonight and pick up your stuff" Girl stops by house to get some clean clothes and her lunch for work and sees all her stuff piled up in the dining room waiting for her. Still - he does not ask how her Dr apt went and when she says she can not come because she has a biopsy that day - he says sorry he didn't know. To which she says you would have known if you had asked - and she told him several times it was bad news. Later that day also in a text, he justifies his actions by being concerned about hurting over breaking up - nothing about being concerned for her well being - someone he has been in a relationship with for 3 years. He did not call to see how she was after the biopsy. He has not called once to talk to her at all about this.

Boy states that reason for break up is that she is over at his house too much, she has too much stuff there - it is like she is living there. He has told her that he does not date like that. Girl states that if you have been dating for 3 years, you are going to spend a lot of time together, you should want to spend a lot of time together. That people who are together for this long should be able to share their lives. She also stated that he should decided on the break up next week after her diagnosis, and actually after the anniversary trip, because it was already planned.

Last week they talking about trips to Vegas or romantic spa weekend in Hot Springs for their anniversary in three weeks (even had reservations), but today he broke up with her in a text message and has shown no concern for her obvious emotional and physical distress over the cancer issue. Girl has no family nearby and Boy was her main support system.

So question is: Is Boy right - she was around too much and even though she is sick, it really doesn't matter because he needs to break it off now, timing is always gonna suck? Or is Girl right - Boy should have sucked it up for another week until she made it through the Dr apt, let her cry and talk to her. And he is selfish ass for ending a 3

admin answers:

That's weird that he would decide to end it shortly after your diagnosis. I know that I was in the same boat as you were with the cyst and my fiance just asked me if i was ok and if i needed to talk to let him know. I'm not one to open up a lot and when my feelings are hurt or I'm upset I tend to not talk about it until later, much later. I would say roughly a year into relationships some couples generally tend to move in together. After two years of not taking that serious step I probably would have decided he wasn't being serious enough for me and walked. Maybe he felt you were over to much and he started to feel like it was being pushed into something more serious then what he was ready for. What a jacka$$ to break things off at such a sensitive time for you though. Jerk! I know your hurting but girl, your better off.

Daniel asks…

I want my bedroom to reflect my personility.I LOVE CATS.But I have too many many diffrent colors in my room?

I want my bedroom to reflect my personality really bad.I LOVE CATS and the colors purple and teal.Im half tome boy and half girly girl and I also love tomb raider the video game.I was going to paint my room and have half tom boy and half girly girl,and have each side a diffrent color.But they wont mach anyway.My problem is simple I have too many diffrent color things to makemy room a particular theme.How do I reflect both my tom boy side and my girly girl side?

admin answers:

Try posting this in the home&garden section >> decorating, they've got great ideas, and will help you out with colours.
I love curtains, easy to make/find, and you can achieve great things. If you did manage to have colours that kind of go together, you could have a real girly girl bed area, with a curtain around it, tom boy side facing the room, girly girl side facing your bed... So you can play video games in your tom boy room, and snuggle up in your girly girl cocoon bed afterwards :)
You'd want a reasonably big room to do that though, and a handy man around to put up a big curtain rail ;)

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